Brunch munch! Sun 16th Nov 2014
By Jeannette | November 16, 2014
Today meant a lot of changes for T and D, a lot.
But, a bit of jostling aside, which I guess was a way of relieving the tensions that they were both feeling, it went very well.
There was so much out-of-the-ordinary for D:
Taking the car to Grandad’s and then walking 20 minutes into town (nb. walking, no SN buggy), past all manner of strangers also walking to and from town
Having brunch in an unfamiliar restaurant (review to follow), luckily we had a booth and both T and D were on the inside
Different foods to try, which she didn’t altogether like but she gave it a reluctant go
A couple of “she could bolt” moments quickly averted with distraction
A trip to town always means a John Lewis visit, D absolutely memorised by that Christmas advert playing continuously on a TV whilst I collected what I’d ordered
And then, the walk back. A tired D by then but still responsive to Grandad’s questions.
So, a lot to contend with and apart from the fact she’s still been letting me know that she wasn’t keen on the brunch food, she’s been a happy, cuddly girl. We’ve even talked about maybe going back to the restaurant and her trying something different.
Change, when it goes well, is pretty wonderful. Especially when you’re really not sure how it will go.
Days like today give me hope that she’s getting more amenable to change (even after the awfully anxious week she’s had at school), but it’s also reminded me that she is a long way from independence as far as what her peers might be getting up to.
20 Comments
Coombe Mill (Fiona) on 17th November 2014 at 10:06 am.
One step at a time and this looks like one in the right direction, all children can be difficult with food, I think the fact she tried new things even reluctantly is fab, when I make mine do this they have already made their mind up they don’t like something by sight and it is all a waste of time but I still go through the motions as I know one day they will grow out of it. #MagicMoments
Jeannette on 17th November 2014 at 1:53 pm.
I hope so, food is a major bug bear here with neither T or D wanting to go far from what they know. Little steps for us both 🙂
Kim Carberry on 17th November 2014 at 10:11 am.
Aww! Wow! It sounds like D did really well with all the changes which is absolutely fantastic!!
Jeannette on 17th November 2014 at 1:51 pm.
Thanks, she’s come so far this year in terms of willingness to try and acceptance 🙂
Redpeffer on 17th November 2014 at 10:13 am.
Small steps, but big changes. You can’t ask for a more positive experience than this I’d say xx
Jeannette on 17th November 2014 at 1:50 pm.
Totally agree and on a busy pre-Christmas shopping day too 🙂
jollyjillys on 17th November 2014 at 1:41 pm.
Sounds like a lovely positive event , one to enjoy
Jeannette on 17th November 2014 at 1:50 pm.
Thanks, she did very well 🙂
Mummy Wife Woman on 20th November 2014 at 2:08 pm.
Wow what a very positive experience for you. We live by the quote… different day, just dont dare change the routine’ so i understand what this will mean to you. I dont do town trips with Bruiser. He hates shopping and places with people. maybe one day. you’ve given me hope xx
Jeannette on 24th November 2014 at 2:55 pm.
I know what you mean, it’s always so busy but has def got easier this year. It will one day for you too x
xOjox on 21st November 2014 at 9:58 am.
That’s amazing! Well done all of you xx
Jeannette on 24th November 2014 at 2:54 pm.
Thanks, it was fun x
mummyoftwo on 21st November 2014 at 10:36 am.
What an amazing achievement!
Jeannette on 24th November 2014 at 2:54 pm.
Thanks, it was really nice to all be there 🙂
Em on 23rd November 2014 at 2:11 pm.
Well done D that’s a fab achievement xxx
Jeannette on 24th November 2014 at 2:54 pm.
Thanks, it was lovely x
Jane - Ethan's Escapades on 23rd November 2014 at 9:11 pm.
So glad the change went well, it sounds like you had a good day. Booth seating must be in place in all restaurants ;0) #SSAmazingAchievements
Jeannette on 24th November 2014 at 2:53 pm.
Oh definitely, if we can’t get a booth, we don’t eat there!
Jaime Oliver on 28th December 2014 at 3:54 pm.
awww Jeannette I am so pleased this was such a successful visit and heres hoping there are lots more!
Thanks for linking up with #MagicMoments – Sorry for the very long delay in getting to you x
Jeannette on 20th January 2015 at 4:19 pm.
No worries, thanks lovely x